Monday, December 23, 2013

Year in Review -- 2013 -- Merry Christmas!!

Merry Christmas!!  For those who didn't get the card... or wanted to see more pictures, here is our annual Christmas Letter...

January Robbie returned home from his mission in Paris France.  There was much rejoicing!!

 February:  Not enough days to remember what happened.
March:  We took a trip to the south!  First to Nashville, TN, where we visited the Grand Ole Opry and saw Elvis!

 The we drove to Jamestown, TN to visits Troy's Dad and Lois!
 We visited Chickamauga Civil War Park in Chatanooga, where the kids practiced their marching...
Next stop was McIntyre, GA, to visit Honey Boo Boo.  She wasn't home.

 Then on to Florida, where we watched Les Mis and had a beach day in Saratoga
 Visited Univeral and the Magic Kingdom...

 We had a wonderful time with all the kids (and figured this might be our last family vacation with everyone still single -- See June)
 Easter Sunday is the picture above...
 Dallin drove home for Mother's day.  He had spent the past 6 months living in Utah.
 Dallin comes again in June for the wedding.  Robbie proposed to Kate Harward April 28th.  He didn't know that Cami had proposed to Kate the summer before.  Of course, Kate said yes!!
 Married June 22, 2013 in the Spokane Washington temple!









Softball season begins in June. Cami plays her 2nd year.  Coach pitch this year and she finally gets a hit!!

 Cami and MacKenzie Sternod.
 Cadie and Charli play for B-Line.
 July:  Troy takes the kids horse back-packing up Sherman Pass to Snow Peak cabin.  They enjoy a beautiful trip and the horses get some exercise.


The next week, Troy, Jordon, Charli, Cadie and I participate in a church sponsored Trek, pushing and pulling handcarts about 18 miles over 3 days in the mountains near Elk, WA and sleeping under the stars.
 September is Fair month.  The cows parade around the show ring and win ribbone.  Cami, Cadie and Troy earn money and shovel poo.  Cami wins Grand Champion Suffolk Ewe!  Way to go Cami.



 Charli, Freshman year
 Cadie, Freshman year
 Jordon, Junior year. In October, we drove to Utah to celebrate my dad's 80th birthday!  It was a Hillbilly Themed birthday party, that became redneck in the process!

 Lots of Colliers!!
 2013 Cross Country season.  3 kids running for East Valley High School.  Above is Cadie, Then Jordon, then Charli.


 Cami's 2nd grade shots.  Love her silly faces!!

 In November, we have 24 guests for Thanksgiving.  On the Saturday following Thanksgiving, Cami gets baptised with her friend MacKenzie Sternod!

 Cami and her cousins Brenna and Delaney Collier.

LOTS of Bise's and Colliers!!

So that's the year!  Happy 2014!

Sunday, December 22, 2013

Christmas talk, December 22, 2013


 I was asked to speak in Church on Christmas Sunday.  Following is a copy of my talk.

Years ago, in our 2nd Christmas, Troy and I decided we needed to develop some Christmas traditions of our own.  I was 9 months pregnant and we were ready to begin our own family traditions.  We had heard of families that went into the mountains of northern Utah to cut down their own Christmas tree.  This sounded like a fine tradition, so we decided to try it.  We applied for and received a tree cutting permit.  Along with the permit came many instructions, including tagging your tree as soon as you cut it, not cutting down one tree, then finding a better one and abandoning the first and so forth.
The first of December, we ventured off to some place north of Tremonton.  We were driving our small 2WD pickup and had our little dog Ruben in tow.  It never occurred to us that it would be snowy in the mountains.  It was.  2WD doesn’t do so well in the snow.  After getting stuck, and finally finding someone to help us out,  we parked our truck on the road and hiked up to the forest.  Have you ever gone to the woods to cut down a Christmas tree?  It’s not exactly the way it sounds.  Wild grown trees are wild.  They have no shape, no structure.  We could find nothing.  We finally found a smaller Charlie Brown type tree and decided it would do.  This is when we discovered we didn’t bring a saw.  Yes, we are 3 hours from home, hiking in the snowy woods to cut a Christmas tree… and we didn’t bring a saw. 
We started the hike back to our truck, a little dejected and contemplating what to do next. It was cold and snow was threatening again.  And then we saw it.  The most beautiful, perfect Christmas tree, already cut and abandoned on the side of the road.  We could not believe our good fortune.  It was not tagged.  There was no one around.  It looked like it had just been abandoned. We picked that tree up and dragged it for miles back to our truck.
We loaded up and headed back down the mountain, stopping at a small roadside café for dinner.  We cheerily told our waitress about our trip and our good fortune and describe the beautiful tree to her.  We were sure someone had just abandoned it.  The waitress paused a moment, then said, “That family that just left as you walked in?  They just told me they cut down a beautiful, perfect tree, just like you are describing.  They left it on the side of the road while they went to get their truck.  When they returned, the tree was gone.”
We STOLE a Christmas tree!  We felt horrible.  But life is a journey, right.  Sometimes we do things without knowing they are wrong.  Sometimes, we forget thing, make mistakes.  But isn’t that what this life is all about?  A journey, to learn, to grow, to change.
Often when we read the Christmas story from the New Testament, we read from Luke.  Today, I want to read John’s version:
In John, Chapter 1, verse one, we read
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God…”
Verse 3 says “All things were made by him; and without him was not anything made…”   In 4, we are told that In him was Life (as in Eternal Life) and the life was the light of men.  In verse 9, we learn that He was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.
And in 14, it states, “And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us…”
Who is the Word?  Jesus Christ, our Saviour.  Why is He called the Word?  Perhaps because He is a messenger of the Father.  In D&C 93:8, it says “Therefore, in the beginning the Word was, for he was the Word, even the messenger of salvation—“. 
So, just an interesting thought here…  In 1st Nephi, we read of Lehi’s vision of the Tree of Life.  Lehi’s son, Nephi wants to understand the vision, so he turns to Heavenly Father.  The Spirit of the Lord interprets the dream to Nephi.  In the vision, there is a path and along side the path is an iron rod. The path and the iron rod lead to the tree of life, a tree full of beautiful white fruit. The fruit of the tree we learn represents the Love of God.  Multitudes of people are pressing forward to that tree and are grasping that rod and holding tightly through mists of darkness, ridicule and other stumbling blocks. Nephi writes, “I beheld the rod of iron, which my father had seen, was the Word of God.”
Often, we interpret that phrase “word of God” to mean the scriptures, which is accurate and  wonderful, but what if we take that one step further.  The Word of God is Jesus Christ… and when we cling to that Iron Rod, we are clinging to the Saviour Himself as he brings us to the Love of God and eternal Life.
I would like to focus the remainder of my remarks on grasping a hold of that Iron rod, the Word of God or Jesus Christ to bring back to our Heavenly Father.
Come unto me, the Saviour says again and again in the scriptures.  It doesn’t matter who we are or what we’ve done, His invitation is to all of us.
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give your rest.  Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” (Matt. 11;28-29)
Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee.” (Psalms 55:22)
“….Come unto me ye blessed…” Alma 5:16
“…if ye will come unto me ye shall have eternal life…” 3 Nephi 9:14
“…Come unto me and be baptized in my name…” 3 Nephi 21:6, Moroni 7:34
The invitation is pure and simple.  Come unto me.” 
His hands reach out to us, as the Christus statue at Temple Square in Salt Lake City,  inviting, beckoning and ready to grasp a hold  if we but reach for Him.  How is this possible? How is it that He lifts us, sustains us, gives us rest?
In the Living Christ, the testimony of the Apostles of our church it says “We solemnly testify that His life, which is central to all human history, neither began in Bethlehem nor concluded on Calvary. He was the Firstborn of the Father, the Only Begotten son in the flesh, the Redeemer of the world.
 He was born as we were born, a small, helpless infant who had no knowledge of who He was and what his purpose was.  Just as we are born with no knowledge of who we are… that we, too are sons and daughters of God.  His earthly parents, Mary and step father Joseph were imperfect parents, just as we are imperfect parents, they were imperfect sons and daughters, just as we are.  Jesus Christ understands imperfections more than anyone. 
He grew spiritually much quicker than we do, for it says in Luke 2:40, “And the child grew and waxed strong in the spirit, filled with wisdom: and the grace of God was upon him”.  What did it feel like to be His mother?  I wonder if sometimes Mary felt completely inadequate. 
By the age of 12, when Joseph and Mary thought they had lost Jesus and after 3 days found him teaching in the temple, Jesus knew who he was and understood his divine purpose.  “How is it that ye sought me,” He asked.  “Did ye not know that I must be about my Father’s business?”
He lived on earth as we do, through disappointments (His own half brothers did not support him, his neighbors and kinsfolk  in Nazareth thought him crazy), through immense Joys (raising his friend Lazarus from the dead), temptations (Satan tempting him to use his unique powers to bring glory to himself)  through intense sorrow (the betrayal by Judas, a beloved apostal) and through   agony and pain (in the Garden of Gethsemane). He understands EVERYTHING about us.  He understands our self-doubt, because he had to live it also.  He understands the pain of losing a child, a spouse, both spiritually and temporally.  He knows how we feel when we think it is hopeless.
Come unto me… and I will give you rest.  Come unto me.
The Mutual theme for next year is another “Come unto Christ” scripture.  It is found in Moroni 10:32 and says “Yea, come unto Christ and be perfected in him and deny yourselves of all ungodliness…”
The placement of the words in this invitation is significant.  He does not say deny yourselves of ungodliness, then be perfect, then come unto me.  He says “Come unto Christ” (first), and then “be perfected in him and deny yourselves of all ungodliness…”
The Greek word for Perfect in the New Testament is teleios, which means finished.  The end of the verse found in Moroni 6:4 says that Christ “was the author and the finisher of their faith”. Therefore, Come unto Christ (first) and then be finished in him….  Come unto Him.  The rest just falls into place, a piece at a time.  I am not finished now.  Neither are you.  Come unto Him.  He created us, let him finish us. Let his atonement give us the power to understand and change the things we need to to become finished.  It does not matter that we can’t change everything…  That is why He is there.  Come Unto him.
I know that He lives.  I know that the Atonement of Jesus Christ can give us the power to change anything and everything.  He knows us, He loves us. He suffered human experiences so that he could help us and sustain us as we suffer our own. He is the Son of God, He is our Light and Life.  Because of Him, we can live.


Thursday, December 27, 2012

Merry Christmas from the Bise Family

Merry Christmas!
We hope you had a wonderful Christmas and that 2013 will bring you many joys!  Here is a sampling of our 2012.

Robbie (21) is nearing the end of his 2 year mission for our church, serving in Paris France.  He has lived in three countries (France, Luxembourg and Belgium) and worked with people from all over the world.  He will return home in 3 weeks.  We are so excited!

Dallin (19) graduated from high school this year.  This summer, he did the Craiglist upgrade, by purchasing a motorcycle for $150 and trading up, until he got an 87 Chevy Blazer.  In October, he moved to Provo, Utah, where he is working , saving money and planning to enroll in college.  He came home for Christmas and we’ve loved having him home.

Jordon (15) is a sophomore.  He loves music and loves his guitar.  This fall, he ran Cross Country, earning a varsity letter and posting times around 18:50.  He will be taking Driver’s Ed. In January and driving by June…  He is a great big brother to 3 sisters and makes us all happy.

Cadie and Charli (13) are in 8th Grade.  They will be 14 next month.  This year, they each raised and then showed a steer at the fair and sold them for $2200 each.  They also played softball, volleyball and basketball.  But running is their greatest love!  They placed 5th and 6th in their All League cross country meet in October.  Cadie still plays flute and fiddle and Charli plays the saxophone.  They love to ski, water sports of all kinds and camping.

Cami (7) is in first grade.  She loves to entertain the family and is very funny, even when she isn’t trying to be.  She still loves to sing and plays endlessly with her toys, making up games and adventures.  Everybody knows her.  Where ever we go within our school district boundaries, kids, old and young, know who she is.  Very friendly kiddo!

Troy is still working with Lexmark.  I am still me.  Our relaxation is on our farm with our cows and horses and 20 acres of pasture and forest.  Our little family is growing up and our kids are a great source of joy for us as we watch them grow and learn and accomplish things they didn’t know they could do.

We are thankful for the gospel of Jesus Christ and for the hope of a better tomorrow.  We are grateful for each of you, our family and our friends that we accumulated over the years.  May your hearts be filled with the spirit of Christmas throughout 2013.

With Love, The Bise Family

Sunday, October 28, 2012

The Worst Day EVER!

Thursday was one of the worst days of my life.  My dog got shot, I got run over by the truck, my daughter's favorite pair of shoes was stolen out her locker and my rooster came back from the dead.

Thursday morning, I went to the barn to feed the animals.  I was supposed to teach a spin class at the gym, so I was in a hurry.  My dog, Tibby was waiting for a run, but I knew I wouldn't have time.  I decided to let her off the chain to just run, figuring she would come back to the barn by noon because it was cold and raining. She ran straight for the woods, chasing a flock of turkeys.  I went to work, feeding the chickens, pigs and sheep.

My rooster had been missing for 2 days.  I was actually kind of glad.  He is mean and threatens me all the time.  Sometimes he even runs right at me.  I don't like him.  I was hoping a coyote got him.  As I fed the chickens, I heard a very faint "cock-a-doodle-doo".  At first I thought it was coming from the neighbors place, but when I heard it again, I realized the it was my rooster and we was close by.  "What the heck?" I thought.  "Where is he?"  About 20 feet from the chicken house is a very large stack of round bales.  They weigh 750 lbs each and are stacked pyramid style.  The rooster sound was coming from there.  I looked under the tarps.  No rooster.  I looked down between bales.  No rooster.  And no way he could've squeezed between the bales...  or so I thought.  I called Troy.  "The rooster has returned from the dead, but now he's buried in the stack of round bales.  I can't move them, they are too heavy.  Probably, he's going to die in there and you're going to have a stinky, dead, rotting rooster in your hay."

I resumed my farm chores, when a voice spoke clearly.  "Go rescue your rooster."  I knew it was the Holy Ghost and my first thought was "How?"  I'd already looked and couldn't see where he was.  If I moved a round bale, the whole pyramid would topple.  And I didn't know if I could really move 750 pounds anyway.  I felt inspired to trust the voice.  (Probably because I was teaching a lesson the next Sunday on personal revelation and inspiration).  If Heavenly Father wanted me to rescue the rooster, He would provide a way.  I asked Heavenly Father to have the rooster crow again, so that I could pinpoint where exactly he was.  I heard him clucking.  Somehow, he was buried in the hay.  I started wiggling a round bale, trying to open up a space.  I still couldn't see the rooster.  After working for about 5 minutes, I opened up a 6" gap around a round bale.  I stepped back.  Still no rooster.  I pondered for a few minute, trying to think what my next move should be.  Suddenly the rooster came walking out of the hay.  Very much alive.  Ready to eat me.

My dog?  That's a really sad story.  About 15 minutes after she took off, I heard a shotgun blast.  I immediately knew that she'd been shot, before she even started yelping.  "Someone just shot my dog," I thought.  That shot was followed by two more.  She stopped crying.  I knew that she was dead.  What kind of person shoots a dog?  I heard one of my neighbors yelling at the shooter.  "This is private property.  You cannot shoot up here, you blankety blank!!"  I drove up to his house to see if he'd seen my dog.  I told him I was certain she'd been shot.  He hadn't seen her.  He and his wife walked all over their property but didn't see her.  I went to visit Goat Guy (the farmer down the road).  Maybe she'd gotten into his goats and he had shot her.  I didn't think it was too likely, because Goat Guy knows her and knows me...  He was milking his goats and hadn't seen her.  Although he did hear the shots.

I spent the next 2 hours walking through brush and trees and up and down the road, searching for Tibby.  Hoping that she was still alive, just injured, but knowing that she was more likely dead.  It was pouring rain and cold.  Eventually, I had to go home.

When Troy came home, he resumed the search.  He found her around 6 pm, lying 6 feet from a deer who'd also been shot.  The poacher (because he was NOT a hunter) had abandoned them both.  Why?  Well, hunting was closed for the week, signs were posted everywhere, "No Hunting" "No Trespassing", and the neighbor had yelled.  He probably hightailed it to is truck and got out of there.  He knew that not only had he killed a deer, but he had killed someone's dog.  I can't make sense of it, so I let it go.  I like to think the first shot was an accident.  He didn't know he was shooting a dog.  I hope the next two shots were truly to put her out of her misery, not to shut up her cries.  I don't know what to think.  I miss that dog.
The shoes?  Well, Cadie was at volleyball practice.  She put her shoes and clothes in her locker, but didn't bother to lock it.  After all, who steals clothes? Or shoes?  They were $24 shoes from Kohls.  Really.
They are on sale for $21 today.  She was so sad.  She had waited so long to get these shoes.  Not only were her shoes stolen, but now her dog was dead.  Dumb people.

Getting run over by the truck?  Well, that happened late that night.  Troy found Tibby.  He and Jordon put her in the truck and brought her to the farm.  They dug a hole, put her in and buried her.  The hole was only a foot or two deep, so I dragged a pallet over to put on top to discourage wild animals from digging her up.  I was right next to the truck on the side, with the pallet leaning against my legs.  The truck backed straight up.  I could see that I wouldn't need to move.  Then I saw the wheels turn slightly.  But I was in such a stupor over losing my dog and all that had happened, that I couldn't think clearly.  The truck won't hit me, I thought, just as the truck wheels ran over the pallet, pushing and crushing the pallet into my legs.  I have 4 large bruises on my legs.

Yeah, that was the worst day.  But I loved the whispers of inspiration that came throughout the day.  Heavenly Father loved me enough to let us find the dog so that we didn't have to worry.  He gave me the courage to find the dumb rooster.  He helped me understand revelation and inspiration a little better so that I could better teach a lesson.  I haven't replaced Cadie's shoes yet.  I haven't replaced the dog yet.  I would like the rooster to be gone.  Maybe we'll replace the truck...  probably not.  And the next day was a little better.  Smile.


Monday, October 1, 2012

Suds in the Bucket...

There is a country song that has the line "How could 18 years just up and walk away?  She left the suds in the bucket and clothes hanging out on the line..."  And that line "How could 18 years just up and walk away..." has brought me to tears several times this week as my second son packed up his room and all his stuff, then loaded it in his car and left on a new adventure...

So I think of the mom of the Three Little Pigs, who went her 3 pigs out into the world to find their fortune.  Each pig took a different path, built a different life, but in the end, they all ended up together in the same house.  So, not that I want all my kids back in the same house...  but they do come back, right?  :)
Dallin backing down the driveway.
Here's the thing.  Eighteen year olds who aren't sure about their life plan (should I go on a mission? should I go to school? should I join the military?) should launch.  So that's what we helped do as parents.  We said, here are some options...  what do you choose?  And Dallin said, "Hey, this moving to Provo and getting a job thing sounds like the adventure I am craving" (because, don't you know, 18 year old boys who've graduated from High School crave some sort of adventure).

Here's another thing.  Don't ever think for a second you have it all figured out.  I had a plan for Dallin.  It was the same plan I had for Robbie.  But it never dawned on me that Dallin wouldn't want to follow that plan.  So what will Jordon's plan be?  And Charli and Cadie and Cami's?  Launch.  The rest is in Heavenly Father's hands.  He knows their plan.  He knows what experiences and grand adventures and trials they need to help them become amazing adults.  As parents, we helped pave the way.  We teach them to have faith, to pray, to serve others.  We teach them to work hard, to save money, to earn money.  We teach them all we know to do and then we have to let them launch.

Let them go.  Let them live.  Let them make their own choices and decisions and even mistakes.  It's harder than it looks.  Open your hands and let them fly.  Launch.  Suds in the bucket.  Gone in the blink of an eye.
Launch, DallyWally!  The girls said the bright light over his head was his guardian angels, preparing for his journey!